Which sign of a healthy long-term relationship do you value the most?

The kind of bond where you'd still choose them for a pub quiz team even if romance were off the table. Companionship that outlasts the honeymoon phase.

Being able to raise concerns without a three-day cold war afterwards. It's less glamorous than grand declarations but arguably more romantic.

Encouraging each other's friendships, careers and solo interests without jealousy. A partner who cheers you on rather than clings on.

From quoting Peep Show at each other to laughing during a Tesco run, humour is the glue that gets couples through the mundane and the miserable.

Being the steady presence during grief, illness or a truly awful week at work. Not flashy, but the foundation everything else rests on.